A lot can happen in 9 months. Hell, you can conceive a baby, have it grow from one cell into a newborn baby in that little of time.
Your heart can break over and over and over, in that amount of time.
Your daughter can experience her first boyfriend AND first breakup in that short of time.
Good god, I miss the crap out of you. Your easy laugh. Your bright smile. Even your stinky ass feet.
I miss random, goofy Facebook posts, and random texts.
I miss it all, but I am trying to find my “happy”.
You’d be proud of Zaida, Katy, and Michael! They’ve done SO good these last 9 months. Hannah is beautiful, and Katy and Bobby are doing so good with her!! Zaida is going to Emporia! Michael has the same job, and he’s killin it.
Summer and Boni, Heather, John John, Savannah, and Jack are all doing well. (I haven’t heard anything bad really)
John and Tracey, Mike, Dee, grandma Kathleen and Aunt Cindy, and Grandpa Parsons all keep up with us, and haven’t lost touch.
Every single one of us misses you.
That will never change.
I am working out, regularly. I am COOKING! I am making it a point to hang out with my friends, new and old.
It’s been exactly 9 months, since you’ve gone on, to whatever came next for you. I really hope that wherever you are, you are happy, pain free, and hanging with all the greats! Going by the life you led, here on earth, you deserve the best, wherever you have gone.
You were one HELLUVA human being! I am so proud that you chose me, out of all the choices you had to pick from.
I was one lucky bitch!
I think you’d be proud of me, too. I mean, that’s what everyone tells me, and I am starting to believe it.
I am more serious than ever to eat right, work out regularly, and am already signed up for 10 obstacle course races for next year, and am about to make it 11. Meg joins me for all of the CTG races, because she is AMAZING in the merch tent. Good God she is fantastic with people, just like you always were!
Her teachers (most of them) love her, and she jokes with them on their level, but also as a child. You know, like the Shrek movies! PG enough for kids, but funny for adults too.
I am trying to encourage her to be more physically actuve, but, it’s not working, right now.
I am terrified of being a solo mom, to a teenage girl! I was TOTALLY relying on you to be around for the “daddy’s girl” part, because it’s inevitable, all teenag girls hate their moms for some portion of their teen lives. I don’t want to do it! I will survive it, but it’s going to suck when that time comes, and kicks me in the ass.
But I’ll keep moving. I’ll keep “mom-ing”. I’ll try to be everything I can be, and everything that you were for her.
I am only human. But, I will try.
I hope you are proud of me. I make sure I’m a good person, and always am considerate of those around me. I really do think about all the ways you were a better human than most people I know. And when I say better than most, there are a very few humans who are equally as good as you were. But, when I meet one, I acknowledge them.
Oh! And another thing you’d be so proud of!!
I cooked dinner tonight! A super healthy, tasty dish, and even made a healthy bread to go with it! I wish I knew how to cook like this, before, because I’m slaying the kitchen, now!
I made chicken “ala King”. Onions and leeks and coconut cream, and red peppers and spices! I am so excited about this new food adventure I am on! I never want to stop! Not kidding, I’ve spent so much on groceries this week because I didn’t have the staple ingredients for healthy cooking/baking. Now I do.
Not only did I make a meal from scratch, I freaking cleaned the kitchen afterward! This is where you’d pat me on the back and say “welcome to my world!” That’s what you did all the time! It may not have always been healthy, but, by god, you could cook!
I remember the day I overheard you tell me friends that you enjoyed cooking. I though, “Holy damn! JACKPOT!” I didn’t like cooking. Now, however, it’s another way to release the stresses of everyday life. I am learning, from an amazing human, about cooking, and eating clean. No one has ever taken the time to say “get this brand, over this because *insert reason here*” it is so much better when you have the reasons as to WHY one is better than the other, and CHEAP is always a favorite word!
So, I am here, in this world, missing you, in your new world, but, I am O K. We are O K. It sucks, but we will live, until it’s our time to exit this world, and possibly, join you in your world.
So much love to you, Mitchell John. No matter what EVER happens in THIS world, my new world without you, I will NEVER stop loving you. No matter who I date, if I ever fall in love again and wind up remarried, I will NEVER. STOP. LOVING. YOU! Never. You are my number 1, and most notable love of my life.
You are my Mitch.
My soul mate.
Love you always,