Today, I did something. I deleted and blocked a person from my life, that was toxic, to me. I decided to test the person first. I was right with my suspicions. Even though I know there’s no respect for me from said person, I will respect their privacy, and not share their name. But here goes!

Hello? Who the hell would come at me, expecting to have even the slightest chance at mentally abusing me? Who. The FUCK. do you think I am? Let me spell it out…

I’m the woman who had a rough start at life, being pulled from my parents and put into foster care, in first grade.

I went to 13 different schools, and didn’t graduate.

Lived on my own from age 15-17, couch surfing, and working, trying my damndest to stay alive.

I am the woman who met the man of her dreams, married him, had a baby, and Created a BEAUTIFUL family.

I took my adult ass to get my GED, then went to college, so I could set a better example for my baby girl.

I never gave up on my career. When I wasn’t being respected and given the pay I knew I was worth, for my position, I left.

When I felt as though I wasn’t getting paid my worth at my next job, I applied elsewhere to see what I could be making, and fought for it. I got it.

I am the woman who lost her husband, unexpectedly, on a Wednesday morning, while he was at work, my child at school, and myself too busy to realize he never read my text that morning.

I have been through hell. I walk through hell regularly. I don’t need toxic people in my life, and I WILL remove you.

I am a positive, uplifting, forgiving human. I love people. I love my family, my friends and my career. I believe everyone deserves a second chance.

I ALSO believe my opinion matters. Your opinions matter. Even if I disagree with them, they matter, because they are YOURS!

But know, I don’t fucking play.

2 thoughts on “Toxic Humans and Me.

  1. I don’t know you but I was scrolling through my feed and for whatever reason decided to read and you spoke the words of my mind and heart, different circumstances of the hell and back but damn you nailed my thoughts that I’ve never been able to accurately express. How inspiring and encouraging it is to read what I couldn’t put into words. Thank you! From one fighter to another…THANK YOU!

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    1. I love when people can connect to the things I say. A lot of times I’m typing and think “gosh, I talk about myself a lot!” But, really, I just put my thoughts into text and hope that SOMEONE out there reads, connects, and maybe feels a little less alone in the world. I’m glad you could connect (sorry about your hell and back, though). Thank you for reading. And you’re welcome. ❤️

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